I have to admit I am not sure how common this is, but I do agree that is reasonable considering the fact that she is putting herself at a very high of health issues in the near future.

Perhaps this will be the wake up call she needs to get back on track. I am always surprised how healthcare workers (who see the horrors of uncontrolled diabetes) can ignore their own diabetes control. Perhaps they are so overwhelmed and scared that they ignore it, even though they should know better.

I really hope your friend makes the changes needed. Her A1c is very (dangerously) high, and she possibly needs insulin. A good idea would be to offer to cook healthy meals and exercise (i.e. go for walks) with her. She knows what she needs to do, now she just needs the support to do it. However, while I agree 100% that people need support, they also need to take responsibility for what they do. I hope your friend realizes that her life is important and makes the changes she needs to make. No one will help you if you don't want to help yourself.

Best wishes!

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